Thanks the relay is fine and so is the relay already in the car. I tested the starter motor and that is ok but I've just put the car back together again after re-fitting the starter and its still the same, just like in my videos only without even cranking at all this time.
What else could of gone wrong? Also I think I'm going to need help turning my security off as I don't have a fob and the alarm keeps going off.
Can anyone help ?