You cant have different trims, it will look funny, trust me, Ive got different door handles and although theyre out of the way you still see it and it looks odd (temporary measure!)
If the main trims were different it would look really bad..
Either get the whole lot sprayed up (or do it yourself if you think you can pull it off) to suit your taste, or buy another set.
Oh and that quarry motors link, there you go, just what you need, and mention the forum for 10% off I think? Then sell off your shabby trims to someone who'll get them sprayed job done!